Tuesday, January 19, 2010

The price of silence...

Hum lavoo se keh na paaye unse haal ye dil kabhi
aur woh samjhe nahin yeh khamoshi kya cheese hai.....
(I could never tell her what my heart echoed and she could never understand the language of my silence.)

Silence is golden, they say.........So -
Is the silence of a mother, who has lost her son in a road rage - golden?
Is the silence of a girl child, who is repetaedly being molested by her neighbour - golden?
Is the silence of a widow, who has lost her husband (an innocent victim of terrorism) - golden?
Is the silence of an officer, who is a witness to corruption in his organization - golden?

How long do we live in fear and avoid realities of life?
How long do we act 'brave and smart'?
How long do we stretch our lips till the muscles pain - when the world inside us is crashing down?

If silence is golden, then what is the price that we pay for it??
The pain - suffering - agony that becomes a part of our life?
The death of dreams where hopes are just an illusion?
The trauma of a forcefully forgotten childhood?
The conflict of inner and outer voice??

Its time we stood up for our rights. It's time we say 'all is NOT ok and I have the right to complain.'
It's time we realise that our vulnerability is not our weakness, it is our strength.
It's time we appreciate the fact that it is OK to reach out for help, it's OK to mess up, it's OK to feel like a crap, it's OK to complain......and
IT IS OK TO EXPRESS.

Yes - it is time we accept that we are humane.

Monday, January 4, 2010

New Year - New Hopes

2010 (Twenty-Ten as people refer to) is finally in..
I have never made any New year resolutions, as I have never believed in them. Seemed to me as quite a silly affair always. But this time - I feel I need to have a strong message for myself......so after a little bit of brainstorming, I am finally up with MY NEW YEAR RESOLUTION -----------------
'Get rid of anything that isn't useful, joyful or beautiful'

My new year eased in quite smoothly. Guest at home, quality time spent with my family and visit to (on of my fav hangouts) Odyssey. Later, a solo appointment with my daughter - yes, strictly her & me :)
So, as each day passes by, we endevour to turn our dreams into reality.

JET SET GO.....